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Feb. 16th, 2022 02:27 pmWhile Misty may seem harmless enough on the surface, and while she does sometimes genuinely mean well, she is in fact a deeply troubled, deeply troubling person, and she's prone to unhealthy/toxic behavior and thought patterns in how she relates to people. I have more detailed information in my apps, but here's the basic rundown:
- she has an unhealthy addiction to caretaking and feeling needed, and likes the emotional high she gets from people depending on her; at its most extreme, this has resulted in her exhibiting Munchausen by Proxy-esque behavior
- while she does care about the general wellbeing of the people she views as close to her, she does not care about their boundaries, privacy, or personal agency, and will cheerfully violate all of the above in the name of "protecting" or "helping" them, or even in the name of just wanting to spend time with them
- she also may talk casually about any of the above, often in a way that indicates that she's only partially aware of how extreme and alarming her behavior is (or alternately, that she knows it's extreme, but believes that it's justified)
If any or all of this is not something you want to deal with in your RP, never fear - I completely understand. I have an opt-in for each facet of her issues, and an opt-out for threading with her entirely. I'd really appreciate it if everyone would fill this out, just so I know where we stand! If I don't hear from someone OOCly, I'll default to assuming that they're okay with interaction, but not okay with any of the hardcore stuff mentioned above (meaning Misty will not develop any sort of obsession with or fixation on their character that would lead to any of this coming out in full force).
If I tag you before you read/reply to this and it turns out you'd rather go the "no interaction" route, just fill this out to let me know and I'll delete my tag.
- she has an unhealthy addiction to caretaking and feeling needed, and likes the emotional high she gets from people depending on her; at its most extreme, this has resulted in her exhibiting Munchausen by Proxy-esque behavior
- while she does care about the general wellbeing of the people she views as close to her, she does not care about their boundaries, privacy, or personal agency, and will cheerfully violate all of the above in the name of "protecting" or "helping" them, or even in the name of just wanting to spend time with them
- she also may talk casually about any of the above, often in a way that indicates that she's only partially aware of how extreme and alarming her behavior is (or alternately, that she knows it's extreme, but believes that it's justified)
If any or all of this is not something you want to deal with in your RP, never fear - I completely understand. I have an opt-in for each facet of her issues, and an opt-out for threading with her entirely. I'd really appreciate it if everyone would fill this out, just so I know where we stand! If I don't hear from someone OOCly, I'll default to assuming that they're okay with interaction, but not okay with any of the hardcore stuff mentioned above (meaning Misty will not develop any sort of obsession with or fixation on their character that would lead to any of this coming out in full force).
If I tag you before you read/reply to this and it turns out you'd rather go the "no interaction" route, just fill this out to let me know and I'll delete my tag.